i hate to hear "i can understand how you feel". yes hate.
and no, you DO NOT UNDERSTAND AT ALL.

just like how i do not understand you and why you did this and that. but at least i do not lie in your face and pretend to understand.

again, you do not understand and will never understand.
so back off and stop acting like a know-it-all and solve-it-all and please treat me like an individual. 

bye.